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I am Eczekiel H. Aboy, a 24-year old Computer Engineer. I am currently employed at AMA Computer College-Cotabato Campus. Soon to be a School Director( I was just kidding! jejejej).

I originally grown from Kidapawan City, a place of Spring and Fruits..

I am the son of my mother and my father, 3rd among the four (4) siblings. More accurately, I am the cutest. for real.

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How to Know the Difference Between Love, Infatuation and Lust?

March 17, 2010

While there’s no clear, fool-proof way to decipher your feelings for someone, there are certain ways to make the distinction between love, lust and infatuation clearer for yourself.

Step 1:

Write down everything that you associate with the person you’re feeling strongly about. Example words on your brainstorm list could include love, butterflies, holding hands, annoying, snoring, gorgeous, etc.

Step 2:

Circle each attribute with a different color such as red for lust, yellow for infatuation, and green for love.

Step 3:

See which of the three feelings dominates the page. If one doesn’t stand out (as if the distribution seems pretty equal), move on to the following steps for more insight.

Step 4:

Read literature on the topic. Questions about love are timeless questions that have consumed mankind throughout the ages and are a major theme in many scriptures, tales from mythology, and literature. Read the story of David and Bathsheba from the Old Testament, 1st Corinthians from the New Testament, the story of Ali and Fatima, Echo and Narcissus, or Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet.

Step 5:

Ask your friends or, if you find it easier, ask a complete and utter stranger, so that you get an honest opinion and an outsider’s point of view. Tell that person how you feel, and ask them if it sounds primarily like love, infatuation, or lust.

Step 6:

Watch a movie that relates to your situation like “Cruel Intentions” (which is about lust, and wanting what you can’t have), “Down to You” (which is about love and leaving it all down to the other person), “How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days” (which is about none of them really but it’s about making a mistake and putting it right), “The Notebook,” which tells a tale of life-long love and commitment, “The Phantom of the Opera” (which is about both lust, infatuation and, eventually, pure, true, self-sacrificing love) and definitely, “Titanic” (which is about holding on to someone forever until you die - that is love - bittersweet love), also, perhaps, “The Fly” (which is about a woman who falls in love with a man who turns into a fly and then goes insane, and yet remains deeply emotionally attached through this agonizing life change - which is love) or High Fidelity (which is about learning what love really is). Yet, understand that movies are fictions that depict idealized rather than realistic love.

Step 7:

Love is all about the little things. When you are really, truly, in love, you don’t feel the need to dress up for them. The most important thing is being with them. Butterflies are not usually present in love. You should not feel nervous when you really love someone. Love means you connect with them spiritually, intellectually, and emotionally. And love means differences, disagreements, and arguing (but not fighting) because who wants to be with someone who is the same as they are? You feel refreshed when you are with them, but not necessarily weak when you are away from them. If you think about them all the time, always, it is probably lust or infatuation, not love. The most important thing you should consider is, can I say ‘I love you’ and truly mean it?

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Engineering HYMN

March 15, 2010

(In the tune of Villar theme song)

Nakakuha ka na ba

Ng grado na basura?

Nagsunog ka na ba

Ng Kilay hanggang umaga?

Yan ang tanong namin

70 nga ba ang passing?

Naisip mo na ba

Bakit nagaaral ka pa?

Todo effort tayo

Bat walang nagbabago

At mas mabuti pa kung

Natutulog tayo!

Engineering ang tunay na mahirap

Engineering ang tunay na puro pasakit

Engineering ang may kakayahan

Na malimutan ang sariling pangalan

Engineering lamang ang magtatapos

Ng ating kasiyahan!

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Failure of Education

March 13, 2010

if you are not study well, this will happen to you:

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Oh! Carol (bisaya version)

Play this video:

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Sa langit wala ang beer

Play this video to find out why there is no beer in heaven and a lot more.. enjoy..

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You are the Love of my Life

You are the love of my life

I am amazed
When i look at you
I see you smiling back at me
It’s like all my dreams come true

I am afraid
If i lost you girl
I’d fall through the cracks
And lose me track in this crazy lonely world

Sometimes it’s so hard to believe
When the nights can be so long
And gave me the strength
And kept me holding on

Chorus
You are the love of my life
And I’m so glad you found me
You are the love of my life
Baby put your arms around me
I guess this is how it feels
When you finally find something real
My angel in the night
You are my love
The love of my life

Now here you are
With midnight closing in
You take my hand as our shadows dance
With moonlite on you skin

I look in your eyes
I’m lost inside your kiss
I think if i’d never met you
About all the things i’d missed

sometimes it’s so hard to believe
when a love can be so strong
and faith gave me the strength
and kept me holding on

You are the love of my life
And I’m so glad you found me
You are the love of my life
Baby put your arms around me
I guess this is how it feels
When you finally find something real
My angel in the night
You are my love
The love of my life

click here to play

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How to TURN OFF a Computer

There are many steps to shutdown a Computer.

First, if you are using a Personal Computer and you are late to your class or work and you want to shut it down, the fastest way is to unplug it. SO EASY!

Second, if you are using a laptop or notebook, the fastest way is to press the power button for a long period of time. NO SWEAT!

The first and second ways are dangerous to your computer’s health. If you want your computer to be safe when turning off, follow this steps:

1. click start.

2. click turn off.

3. click turn off again.

Wait till your computer saves your setting nad finnally turn it off.

In this way, the health of your computer is very safe.

That’s all, thank you.

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Educators do better

March 12, 2010

If a doctor, lawyer, or dentist had 40 people in his office at one time, all of whom had different needs, and some of whom didn’t want to be there and were causing trouble, and the doctor, lawyer, or dentist, without assistance, had to treat them all with professional excellence for nine months, then he might have some conception of the classroom teacher’s job.

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Find true Love

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’ re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU… The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her…

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Attitude of the Filipino People

What will happen to the Computerized Election this May 2010?

Is it possible to avoid any unnecessary changes or even what do they call “dayaan”?

We Filipino are very intelligent enough to do such unnecessary things, but we can avoid that by disciplining our own self. Or mayb we must be honest on voting, but how can we do that even to ourselves we are not.

One of the problem that we carry for a lifetime is that we are very pissimistic or shall we say we do not trust each other, instead, we compete to each other that will lead to envy and discouragement.

We cannot obtain peace if we continue with this attitude, “You cannot say if the water is hot when you didn’t see its smoke evaporating” or for real, you cannot say that you have peace when you are troubled.

It’s so ironic that we are one of the christian country who carry the big population among the Asian country but we are damned because of our attitude.

It’s certain that we are falling apart, because we pull each other when they reach the top.

This is what Filipino people are!

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